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$1,796…and 5 Tips for Parents of Elementary Students

October 6, 2014

Janine Lillard’s second-graders had a penny drive.

They were wanting to help a school hit by Hurricane Sandy.   “I believe in doing social justice and that social-action projects develop a youngster into a person who cares about others,” says Ms. Lillard in the article on her in St. Louis Magazine.  She is named their Elementary School Winner for Excellence in Education.

She and her students collected pennies.  Others in the district got involved.  Ms. Lillard’s class went to the bank. “We watched the money go through the little coin machine, and then we got the final check, ” she says.  “Just to see their faces!  They couldn’t believe that all this change had accumulated to $1,796.”

(Side note: I have no idea where, or even if, she’s active in a local church…but she sure sounds like a good United Methodist….)

Ms. Lillard’s 5 Tips for Parents:

1. Always smile.

2. Before you speak, take a deep breath.

3. If you are real with your child, your child will feel that he or she can be real with you.

4. If you go the distance, they will go the distance with you.

5. For every one frustration, try to find four or five specific compliments for your child.

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5 Comments
  1. Patty Mason's avatar
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    I especially like #5—“specific compliments”. We always used this in trainings for teachers and paraprofessionals of kids with special needs. But it applies to all kids from any adult. Kids need a lot of praise, and it needs to be specific to ensure understanding.
    So, in practice this morning: “I love that you carried your pajamas and put them in the laundryroom! Thank you M!” and, “wow! You put on your shoes and socks! That is great, D!”
    I’m giving thanks to God for these specific grandkids. They are out the door and off to school with specific praise. Whew! This Mimi is going to reheat and enjoy the cup of coffee made over an hour ago. Lol

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  2. pattyshusband's avatar

    You are a wonderful Mimi! And thank you for sharing this!

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  3. nanette755's avatar

    I wish I had employed #5. Perhaps I could have negated as much adult behavioral problems existing in adulthood, still. It is a regret, I have yet to overcome. Perhaps it is my thorn to bear (along with the physical ones).

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    • pattyshusband's avatar

      As much as I love “Modern Family” and think it’s the best-written show on tv, you and I both know that not every situation is fix-able in real life. Sad but true.

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  4. nanette755's avatar

    Not only fixable on tv, but especially not in 40 minutes (allowing for commercials OUT). So sad and too true!

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