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Looking at the Flood or the Boat?

From an Asbury (IYKYK) friend. Personally, I would change the statement at the end to a question. But other than that —

The most terrifying detail about Noah’s Ark isn’t the size of the flood. It is the design of the boat.

If you look closely at the blueprints God gave Noah in Genesis 6, He was extremely specific.

He gave the exact length, width, and height. He specified the type of wood and the pitch to seal it.

In my little years, I have never thought of this! 🔥

But God left out one crucial component.

There was no steering wheel, no sail, and worse still, there was no engine. Think about how scary that is.

Noah was building a massive vessel to survive a global storm, but he had zero control over it, or over where it went.

He couldn’t steer it away from rocks. He couldn’t turn it into the waves. He couldn’t aim for dry land. He was completely at the mercy of the water.

The Ark was not designed for navigation; just for floating.

Noah’s job was to to be the Passenger, not the Captain. God was the Captain.

This is a picture of your life right now.You are trying to put a steering wheel on a situation that God wants you to simply float through.

But my wanting to make that conclusion into a situational question for you and me changes nothing about the rest of this.

And so?

Is Your Pastor Being Replaced?

Or has it already happened?

None other than Gene Peterson observed several years ago that —

The role of pastor

has been replaced

by the strategies

of religious entrepreneurs

with business plans.

— What say you?

Hate Your Job?

“Oh, you hate your job? Why didn’t you say so?

“There’s a support group for that. They meet at the bar.”

— Drew Carey


BONUS BLOG: When Someone Tries to Tell You How You Should Grieve

COPIED —

when somebody else tries

to tell you how you should grieve

smile and forgive them

through your watering eyes

and then imagine

how lonely it must be

to be the person who

audits the tears

of other people

the well intended

will tell you how

long you should miss

your beloved

but

you take your time

grief is a hedge maze

and being lost inside of it

is more than okay

don’t race through

your heartache

because you might

just miss a miracle

or two

in the teardrops rolling

down your face

don’t grieve quickly

just to make somebody

else feel better

if you need to,

let your grief

become a coral reef

let the algae of your hurt

slowly form over the years

into the softest violet hue of heaven

it can take two lifetimes to recover

when our beloved becomes

an empty chair

it’s okay

take as much time

as you need

your healing is your healing

and the scars of absence

will itch longer than you can imagine

but that is because you

risked to love so deeply

and that is far better than

the alternative

I am proud of you

and the courage it

takes for you to grieve

so fearlessly

don’t listen to those

who want you to go back

to normal

normal will never exist again

for those of us who have

lost a part of our heart

if the moon broke in half

would it feel normal?

~ to hell with normal

normal was their scent on your collar

normal was their voice resting in your ear

normal was their touch on your skin

you have a new normal now

it’s looking at the shape of clouds

for messages from the great beyond

that your beloved is fine

you have a new normal now

it’s building a cabin in

the woods of your memory

where you and your beloved

can meet for lunch

you have a new normal now

it’s crying and laughing

at the same time

whenever their favorite

song plays on the radio

grief isn’t the enemy

of life

numbness is

don’t become numb to your suffering

welcome your grief

inside and let it wrap you

up like a blanket

whenever shows up

at your door

~ it’s okay

I swear

~ it’s okay

your beloved misses you just

as much as you miss them

and someday

you two will

get all tangled up

together again

someday

you two will

push each on a

swing again under

a shower of falling blooms

and someday

you two will ride

comets together

on the edge of everything

and someday

you two will giggle

at all of the people

who tried to tell you

how to grieve

~ john roedel,

from “Upon Departure”

~ image by Akira Kusaka

Stop Wearing These Things, part four of four.

Courtney Carver. Brilliance. Much needed but little heeded.

In her own words —


The guilt of your past

The pressure to prove yourself

The expectations and judgements of others

— Questions? John 3:16‘s a great place to start. Layer in John 10:10 and top it off with John 3:17.

For extra flavor, drizzle Matthew 10:14 and let’s get going.

BONUS BLOG: How well-propped-up is your church?

Ryan Burge says —-

A lot of folks assume that many Protestant denominations will just slowly decline over the next few decades.

That’s not what is going to happen.

The Boomers are propping most of them up right now.

When they age out, it’s gonna get bad. Really fast. No one is ready.

Be a CIO, part three of three.

What happens when an elementary student has the role of Chief Inspirational Office (CIO)?

Mrs. Arensberg
explains,

“When kids are trusted with meaningful responsibility, they rise to it…and sometimes a small handwritten note is what someone needs to feel seen!”

Time to apply Luke 10:37.

Ready?

Set?

Go!

BONUS BLOG: Listening to Jesus but Not Getting It Yet?

From the intro to Will Willimon’s latest book —

A parable is a GPS taking you to a new world that’s God’s rather than the fake world in which we are bedded down.

Sure, Jesus wants to connect with us, but he refuses to put his truth on the bottom shelf.

Your misunderstanding and incomprehension won’t stop him from talking.

Be a CIO, part two

Mrs. Arensberg’s classroom Chief Inspirational Office (CIO) will do more than say or write kind words.

“They teach kids to slow down, look around, and care about how others are feeling.

“They give students the chance to lead with kindness and to understand that their words matter!”

Lots packed in there.

You and I know people like that.

By the grace of God, you and can be people like that.

Wanna Be a CIO?

Mrs. Arensberg is an elementary teacher to whom I direct your attention; you’ll find her wisdom on FaceBook and undoubtedly elsewhere.

In her classroom she has a student designated as the CIO —

Chief Inspiration Officer

— whose role it is “to notice when someone might need a little encouragement and to offer it freely.”

She recently shared examples of notes from a CIO, one of which sure sounds to me like a United Methodist Christian —

—- and by extension, and by the grace of God, may the next thing you and I do help someone else.

You, too, can be a CIO!